It's Friday night in Jacmel, Haiti. The bars and restaurants are preparing for busy evenings full of happy patrons ready to eat, drink, dance and be merry with their loved ones.
The music is turned up full blast, and the moonlight casts a soft glow that reflects off of the shimmer of short dresses and skirts of young women giddily holding their boyfriends' arms.
In the midst of the gaiety and merriment, just one street away a very different spirit looms. In the confines of much smaller and darker rooms, the local "cafes" begin to open for the night. Here, local men come to revel and drink, and buy a girl of their choice for a very small and negotiable price.
They make their orders as if creating a meal a la carte. Tall or short, curly or straight hair, they choose girls as young as fourteen and fifteen years old as if they are flavors in an ice cream parlor. For a dollar or two they can use them for a few hours, or if they are willing to go as high as five or ten dollars, they can have them the entire night.
Cars drive past, headlights exposing what seems like nothing more than a corner bar. But, behind emotionless faces, behind the graffiti covered walls, lies young women caught in the web of exploitation, abuse and desolation.
Several miles down the road, in a few neighborhoods over, a young, single mother finds herself alone with three children. After getting pregnant at the age of fifteen, her family kicked her out without a second thought. With only a third grade education, and now twenty-one with three small children, her options are extremely limited.
Scared, alone, and without anyone to turn to, she provides for her family the only way she knows how.
Selling herself to men in her community for a few dollars here and there just to put food on the table and provide a place for her family to sleep - even if it is a concrete floor and a few dilapidated pieces of board slapped together to create a makeshift shelter.
It's a home, and there, inside the tiniest of spaces, she can shut out the world, shut out the nightmare of her reality and she can feel safe.
Travel just a few miles more, and you'll find yet another travesty. At age sixteen, she was kicked out of the orphanage that raised her in Port-au-Prince for "aging out." With her mother dead, and a father who ran away to the Dominican Republic years before, her options were more than limited. She heard a cousin in Jacmel could maybe find her a job and a give her a place to stay, and that seemed the only thing to do.
Leaving behind everything she had always known, she left the city to find new life in a place she had only heard of in stories and seen in photographs.
Yet, upon arrival, her dreams and hopes for a new life and a fresh start were crushed when her cousin abruptly announced she could only stay for a few nights.
Disheartened and discouraged, she sought comfort in the arms of a past lover. Within weeks, it was discovered she was pregnant, and conveniently her lover was no where to be found.
Alone again, and this time, pregnant, she felt empty and worthless.
Until she met another man.
This man was older, much older, and seemed kind. He promised to care for her and the baby, too, once it was born.
This was it. The answer she had been praying for.
Her rented her a small home nearby to his. He brought her food and even paid for new hairstyles and clothing. The baby was born, and he covered all of her medical expenses and needs.
However, soon after, her dreams were quickly shattered once again.
She soon discovered that kindness always comes with a high price. In return for accepting his benevolence, she found herself bonded to him.
Her took care of her, and in turn... she was his property.
In the midst of all the horror and pain she found the ability to hold on to hope. She had her daughter, and her daughter would keep her going, and be the shining hope that one day, the nightmare would end.
Please God, if you're out there... please don't let this be the end.
These stories are all examples of the very real and raw reality for many, many young women in Haiti. Each of these testimonies are taken from bits and pieces of stories and accounts I have come into contact with over the past two years of working in this field in Haiti.
The faces of prostitution in Haiti take many shapes and forms.
Yet, one of the largest challenges faced when attempting to address and combat issues such as these, is how interwoven prostitution, sexual abuse and exploitation is into the very fibers of Haitian society.
It is wildly accepted that with sex comes some type of exchange. Prostitution is difficult to outline and identify because the lines here are so very blurred.
Many people would argue that these women want to be in this type of lifestyle. That they enjoy having sex for money and if they wanted to leave, they would.
Others would say that the young girl in the last story has found an ideal situation being taken care of an older man who provides everything for her.
Despite opposition that may be received from rival opinions, there are women who recognize the severity of their situation. Those who identify the pain and abuse they are experiencing every, single day, and who desire a way out.
This is who we exist for.
We exist for the sixteen-year-old who was kicked out of her orphanage and now finds herself entangled with a man old enough to be her grandfather.
We exist for the single mother trying to feed her young children and has no where else to turn.
We exist for the eighteen-year-old girl who thinks that working in a "cafe" (brothel) will let her becomes like the girls she sees in music videos wearing sexy clothes and driving expensive cars.
We exist for the fourteen-year-old who was raped by her cousin, and now finds herself pregnant with a family who is ashamed of her.
For all young women who find themselves in the various situations that leave them hopeless and abandoned, feeling worthless and unlovable. For the ones who cry themselves to sleep, and pray to God to make another way for them.
Your prayers are not in vain, your tears are have not fallen to shallow graves.
We see you.
We hear you.
We are here for you.
Jasper House Haiti is a bridge that provides young women such as this the opportunity and ability to find hope, and rediscover their worth, purpose and value.
Working in a brothel, being trapped in an abusive relationship, or having to sell yourself to survive does not have to be the end of the story for these women.
There is now a chance for a new story to be written.
The pages of their books do not have to read anger, pain, suffering and sadness, but rather restoration, hope, healing, joy, freedom and empowerment.
New beginnings can start today.
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Together, we can work to rewrite history and let more women in Haiti know - this is not the end.
The rest is still unwritten.